Judgment, The Ultimate Paralyzer:
Judgement Is The Inner Traumatized Child:
Discernment Is The Ultimate Mobilizing/Maturing Force:
This Is The Love That Liberates:
Finally, the deeper you take this work - the deeper you are going to come to realize that ALL PAIN is rooted in misunderstanding, ALL ‘EVIL’ is rooted in misunderstanding, all acts of violence are rooted in misunderstanding. It ALL comes down to not seeing how reality works, and breaking the self against it (the self being humanity at large because ultimately we are all one.)
Finding Unity And Reality Through Discernment:
This is going to help you see that in YOURSELF you have never been evil. All your pain, addictions, negative emotions and so on were a RESULT of a perceptual misunderstanding of how reality works (what is required for your growth within the structure). You were always doing the best you could with what you knew at the time. The deeper you go into LOVE when you’re in pain, the quicker you release yourself from the bonds of your perception to be able to see reality clearer, so you can change to align with it - discernment.
This will then remove the capacity to see ANYONE as evil. Any act as evil. Any group as evil. Any thing as right or wrong - you will start to only see others who are misunderstanding. Who are wounded and in pain due to this misunderstanding and acting from this place. They are hurting others because they think they need to to survive. To thrive.
This will then start to help you see that in real reality there is no reward or punishment - humans created this. There is only cause and effect - pain from misalignment and pleasure from alignment. You will see alignment not as something to attain, but a perpetual path that will INCLUDE pain and misalignments as a learning tool. The pain you experience will stop being so painful because it won’t mean evil in you or others, and it won’t mean being trapped in suffering because you will know how to LEARN and CHANGE and make NEW CHOICES based on that pain.
There will not be lawlessness. No chaos or anarchy. Rather you will have a MUCH clearer view of the STRUCTURE - the systems of reality and what serves growth and what causes chaos. You will see your freedom to choose that which causes chaos and that which causes growth - and you will FEEL the difference between these two things in your senses. Your logic won't run the ship - but it will be used as a TOOL of feeling to keep you ever evolving. You will start to recognize yourself as part of the biology like all other living things - that which serves the evolution OVERALL is supported with life, who opposes it takes itself out. A cancer cell vs. one that works with the body. Eventually the cancer will destroy itself through destroying its host. Not right or wrong. Chaos that is eventually snuffed out by life. So it is with us. Without judgement you will be free to choose joy and evolution and this can't help but serve to aid in the liberation of ALL.
You will start to connect back to your FEELING and thus your HUMANITY - your connection to ALL THINGS - seeing that your actions result in your pain and pleasure, but at the same time you are baring the results of EVERYONE’S actions of alignment and misalignments - and this will cause you to become VERY sensitive to discerning where the true boundaries for you are, how you can ‘empower’ yourself in your life through your choices, where you can feel the pain of others and their choices without having to take responsibility or feel evil, you will start to see where you role in CHANGING THE SYSTEM for the betterment of all is, and where your work is to change yourself - as BOTH will be present. Not one or the other.
Then the lines between altruism and selfishness will blur. Because to do what is best for you is to do what’s best for all.It will seem selfish to hurt yourself as this hurts all. It will seem altruistic to follow what is truly right for you as this serves all. There will no longer be the binary ‘good and bad’ - good people being punished and bad people being rewarded, no looking to fix or save - your role will be to live your alignment, to stand for that alignment in the world and to support others in finding theirs. You will lose your capacity to judge, and at the same time GAIN your capacity to set clear and concise boundaries when others are in a state of not being able to shift their misalignments enough to stop causing you pain. You will have clarity on where this line is.
No evil. No right or wrong. No good or bad. Just alignment and misalignments and where you CHOOSE to be in YOURSELF.
DISCERNMENT - what do you want to do with what is arising, what is the highest evolution for you in whatever you are being presented with? You can’t control them, you can control you and the vote you vote with your time and energy. Where you spend your effort.
You being aligned will sometimes be in social action. sometimes in internal work. Sometimes in play. Sometimes in embracing and spending time with pain. ALL of it will have its pleasure when it’s the thing for you to be doing right now - and THAT is freedom from suffering. You will have joy in the pain when it’s helping you grow. Joy in the battles. Joy in the sorrow. Joy in the change. Joy in the things you cannot change.
THAT is a life without judgement.