We have talked a LOT around here about why healing our personal shame, blame and guilt stories can be incredibly liberating - and why it's so important that we do this work on an individual level so that we can have a better life experience.
We've explored why doing this work will create a much more harmonious life experience for us, and why doing this work is so vital if we want to have clarity around who we are, what we want and what's really going to nourish and fill us up as human beings.
Now, along with that, there's an even bigger reason why we may want to take on this task of healing our personal shame and guilt.
This bigger, more expanded reason centers around the fact that when we are carrying around internalized shame, blame and guilt, chances are we're going to, oftentimes totally unconsciously, be projecting this shame, blame and guilt onto others.
We're going to be taking the things that we haven't been able to accept in ourselves, and we're going to be knowingly and unknowingly scolding, judging, criticising and otherwise making others unsafe in our presence as we off-load our unprocessed self loathing onto those we see around us.
This isn't because we are inherently bad, evil or mean spirited - it's simply because we are interconnected beings and when we have unprocessed pain inside of ourselves, it's naturally going to spill out onto those around us - whether we intend it to or not.
There's a saying - if we don't heal our wounds, we will end up bleeding on people who didn't cut us - and this is VERY true in the context of shame, blame and guilt.
So today let's look at how our society has normalized shaming, blaming and guilting, why we still see it as something that's socially acceptable to do to others, why we project our 'stuff' onto others and how we can start to shift that so that we become safer people for everyone around us.
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