Hello Friend 🙂
THIS is the radical truth about self love.
It's going to feel like the greatest hit of pleasure ever - like you've finally gotten something you didn't even know you were longing for your entire life. There will be a moment, a period of time, where everything feels new and perfect.
Then, slowly, this high is going to wear off.
Reality is going to set in - and we're going to discover that what we were ACTUALLY looking for as we were seeking unconditional love is a fantasy.
We're going to come face to face with the reality that our unconscious conditioning that has been telling us our ENTIRE lives that once we FINALLY have perfect love, we will have perfect safety. We are going to come to see that it was never ACTUALLY love that we wanted - but rather what we were programmed to believe this love would GIVE US that we wanted.
This journey is one if growing up, growing out of the childhood programming we were all handed, and realizing that reality is something totally different than what we thought it was.
Self love WILL get you there, and it will be painful. We will have to grieve and face some deeply held beliefs that need to be renegotiated.
When we do, adult reality will show us our true power.